Men hate to be controlled and forced to commit! I mean they are more afraid of commitment than death. They try to hold onto their freedom just as long as humanly possible before they decide they have too much to lose if they don’t commit to that “special woman”. But it isn’t usually the woman who manipulates him into a relationship that he didn’t really want that he ends up with. In fact, although he may make promises to her out of a temporary fear of loss, he rarely keeps the coerced promises. Instead he begins to feel smothered, like he can’t breathe, before he escapes with his life. There is an easier way to control him ladies!
I get desperate letters from women because they are afraid their men are going to leave them or desperate pleas to help them because the guy just ran for the hills. I can usually pinpoint the problem within a few sentences and it is almost always the same. Desperation and neediness in a woman is a turn-off to guys. Too often women have coerced men into saying things they weren’t ready to say. Sure, the guys could have just avoided making promises they didn’t intend to keep but they rarely do. In a guy’s mind he wants to make sure it ISN’T the right woman and to do that he needs proof. So he starts looking for reasons that the demanding woman is not “the one”. Just the opposite of the intended purpose.
Reasons he may not commit: He says “I just want to be friends with benefits” and you coerce him into a “monogamous” relationship. He doesn’t want to move in together and has a hundred reasons why it isn’t a good idea but you wear him down until he moves in (for a while). He says “I need more freedom” and you think it’s a compromise to let him have one night a month “out with the boys”. He tells you all the reasons it will never work between the two of you but you aren’t listening because you are busy selling him on all of your “qualities”. He does everything in his power to get you to break up with him because he’s a “bad boy” and you think it’s a good thing that you have “patience and understanding”.
Face facts, men are natural born hunters and if they want something they will work on getting it. If you are having to convince your man that you’re worth the constant “relationship talks” then he is trying to find the nearest exit. It is rarely too late to salvage a relationship but you can save yourself the trouble of doing it if you will just listen to what he is saying and watch what he is doing. Don’t try to force a relationship that is obviously one-sided. Chasing a guy will make him run faster! There is a better and more effective way, ladies!
You can use my secret technique Pussy Whip – Proven, Powerful “Secret” Technique Controls Your Man to get him to chase you and want commitment and it works much better than you handcuffing him to you and your relationship. Try a new tactic on him using the power of your mind and my secret technique and you will see a definite change in his attitude toward you and your future together. It’s never too late!