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Booty Call or Love?

Booty Call or Love?

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You know you have the ability to choose which one you desire in your life.  Too many women believe that a booty call is the first step to getting the guy emotionally involved but they have nothing to do with one another.  Some of the best "pure sex" does not lead to love and some of the "least inventive" sex can lead to deep emotional attachment.  It's all a matter of the heart.

I answer questions daily from readers who want to know if they should continue having sex with their ex while trying to get a commitment out of him.  If a guy has a willing sex partner who requires nothing more from him than an occasional "date" or "hookup" isn't it logical that he will take you up on the offer as frequently as he desires?  If that is not what you are seeking and desiring then you will need to decide if you want to continue being his friend with benefits.  I know women enjoy the benefits as much as the men but if you're using sex as a way to get a commitment you may re-think that decision.

I didn't see my now fiancé' for an entire year after our 4 year relationship cratered.  Why did we break up?  Well, I think his freedom was too much of a priority and I'm sure he will admit it freely.  I wasn't willing to be tossed aside only to get together occasionally for a sexual relationship.  Not for me, sorry.  So we didn't talk for an entire year!  No texts, no emails, no contact.  I did, however, use my "secret technique" on him during that time to ensure that he didn't forget about me.  Nothing wrong with some specific, directed thoughts that I knew he would receive.  He proposed 3 weeks after we saw each other again.

My point?  Don't settle for less than you deserve.  If you break up and he states clearly that he wants to continue with the "booty call" but nothing else see it for what it is and break it off if you want more.  There is nothing worse for your self-esteem than constant rejection and  hoping for commitment.  It is easier and healthier for you to be upfront with him and state what it is you need and desire.  Hear what he has to say to you about your needs and don't filter it and only hear what you want to hear.  For instance:  if he says "I don't want a relationship" don't make excuses for him and turn that into "he loves me too much and is afraid".  No!  Take it  as "I don't want a relationship....(maybe with you)".  Yes, it hurts!  But it's better to move on and find someone that does want a relationship with you.

I'm sure most women can relate to the "booty call" boyfriend and it leaves a very empty, vacant, low self-esteem feeling that can easily be recounted years later.  However, we've all experienced the empowerment of not accepting less than we desire in our life, too.  Is there anything better than taking back the control and moving on if that's what is necessary?  Men, or people in general, will only respect you as much as you respect and honor yourself.  Playing games isn't going to get you a strong, lasting relationship.  Be honest, sincere and decide your course of action with your eyes wide open.  "Booty Call" or significant other...you get to make that decision.

 

Remote Seduction Attracts ANY Man

Remote Seduction Attracts ANY Man

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What is remote seduction?  It is a way to attract your man, or any man, without any contact whatsoever.  All it takes is the power of your mind, the ability to visualize and a little practice.  I wrote the book "How to Make Him BURN With Desire...Only For You and it explains in detail how to use remote seduction to attract your man.  The book uses a unique technique that assists you in attracting your "target".  Your target can be someone you know, an "ex", a stranger, a co-worker....absolutely anyone.

What is unique about my technique is that you will actually call your mate to you before beginning your remote seduction visualization.  Thoughts are very powerful and while most people don't realize it they have the power to attract many, many things into their lives.  One of them is a mate.  When you use the power of remote seduction your target will be attracted to you and drawn to you without you ever speaking to him.  He will think the ideas and thoughts are his own but they are thoughts that you have intentionally placed there with the power of your imagination and intention.

For instance, if there is a co-worker that you desire and he has paid no attention to you this would be the perfect technique for you.  Flirting is so obvious and it takes your power away from you to seem so available and be the initiator.  It is best to sit back, use the visualization and make him chase you.  And he will be unable to keep you off his mind.  He will find that he is drawn to you so powerfully that he is literally unable to resist.  You can be friendly, nice, cute, funny but not assertive.  He will be putty in your hands.  An "ex"....well he is toast when you use the technique because you have been intimate and already know how to push his buttons.  This is a great way to get him back and take back your power, especially if he was the one who broke off the relationship.

How to do it?  First, you need to be in a relaxed state of mind.  I will have CDs and MP3s out within the next couple of weeks with powerful meditations to guide you and assist you in reaching the optimum state of mind.  Then you need to call him to you using the technique I wrote about in my books.  It gets his attention and he will immediately feel a strong and powerful thought and presence of you when you use it.  Next, you will visualize all kinds of intimacy with him.  Many readers have reported themselves having a pleasurable and spontaneous orgasm when they use the RS technique.  It is truly as if you are having a sexual encounter.  He feels it, too.  The power and intensity can be so strong and profound that it will feel real to you both.

Afterwards, bask in the glow and visualize the emotional attachment and bond that has been formed between you and your target.  It is a bond that is emotional as well as physical.  My readers have told me they like to use my  Pussy Whip - Proven, Powerful "Secret" Technique Controls Your Man book technique on one day and the How to Make Him BURN With Desire...Only For You technique on the other.  Alternate and get the best of both worlds.  The techniques are similar but one focuses more on the emotional attachment than the other.

What else happens?  Well ladies, when you use the remote seduction technique men from your past will feel it and frequently contact you, men that are not targeted will be drawn to you, actually men from everywhere will be at your beck and call.  Why?  As you raise your frequency and vibration you will attract men like you've never attracted them before.  It is as if you have the inner and outer glow that is achieved usually only after a sexual encounter.  You will have your choice of any man you desire by learning this unique way to seduce a man.  I suggest you use it only on men who are unattached and available.  I do not condone disrupting relationships or marriages by using this on them.  (With the exception of the straying husband and his mistress then I suggest it is a great way to get even and take your power back.)

Learn the technique ladies and build your self-esteem by attracting any man you desire!  Amp up your sexual appeal with a unique Remote Seduction guided meditation.  ONLY AVAILABLE ON MY WEBSITE!

 

Claim Your Man With Your Mind

Claim Your Man With Your Mind

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If you have the power to claim your man without shackling him to you is there a reason why you wouldn't take advantage of it?  Your mind is the key to making a claim on your mate without saying a word to him.  Who needs to be jealous, insecure or let the man control the relationship?  No!  Let the power of your intention stake a claim on your mate that will last until you release him.

How?  Well, if you have read my books "Pussy Whip" or "Make Him Burn" you will know that your intentions and belief control EVERYTHING in your life.  It creates your reality.  I taught you specific methods to contact and control your mate.  I don't care whether he is sitting across the room in a chair or halfway around the world you can control his thoughts and actions.  So if you have the power to do that why wouldn't you be able to put a claim him?  The fact is that YOU DO!

Use the technique to contact him and when you do tell him "you are mine...no one will take you from me....you will be mine until I release you".  When you think of him during the day visualize him as clearly as possible.  Really hone in on him like a laser beam!  Tell him the same thing "you are mine...you belong to me and only me."  See him and even place him mentally in a protective bubble so he will be off-limits and invisible to others.  It may sound bizarre to some women but to those who have read my books, other books on LOA, etc. you will understand how easy it is to do.

Place your claim on anything you want!  If you want something, regardless of what it is, state with conviction in your mind "it is mine".  Trust that it is.  Do not doubt it for a second.  I wanted a painting at an auction and the bidding was going crazy.  Everyone wanted it!  I visualized the painting, stated emphatically in my mind "IT IS MINE" and said "STOP" to all of the bidders.  They stopped, I got a bargain and all I used was the power of my mind.  Use it on anything and everything!  Trust me it works!

 

Manifesting Money $$$$

Manifesting Money $$$$

Money is like relationships or anything else you want to manifest in your life. Use LOA to attract it!

Pussy Whip Manifesting

Pussy Whip Manifesting

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How do you manifest?  It's so easy!   Please don't try to make it hard because it's actually super easy!  Think about it....we manifest every moment of every day whether we realize it or not.  What you are looking at and experiencing you have manifested either on purpose or accidentally.  Whether it is something you want or something you do not want it can be changed through your thoughts and intentions.

In my "Pussy Whip" book I discuss a technique to manifest a man back into your life.  The man could be a total dick but the fact is that regardless you have decided you want and/or need him back.  This technique is simple and straightforward and I give you specific instructions on how to do it!  You couldn't screw it up if you tried!  And yet I receive emails every day asking me the same questions:

  • What is I can't feel connected to him?
  • Is it working if he doesn't say EXACTLY what I visualize him saying?
  • How do I know if I'm connected or in a subconscious state?
  • What happens if I stop using the technique?
  • Do I have to see him in my visualization?

Don't try to make it difficult because it is so easy!  If you are seeing him in your mind's eye then you are connected.  If you are relaxed then you are accessing a state other than your conscious state.  If he says something different than what you're visualizing it's okay.  You say the words because you want to feel the emotion and send that to him.  And finally, WHY IN THE WORLD WOULD YOU EVERY STOP USING THE TECHNIQUE?

If you are manifesting a life that is wonderful would you stop doing it?  NO!  Just as an athlete doesn't usually stop working out because they perfected their body and ability.  You keep doing what you did to get to the happy state you are in.  So, if your mate comes back don't stop using the technique on them.  Keep it up for 5 minutes a day.  Preferably at bedtime because it is the best time to manifest.  Or first thing in the morning while you are still sleepy and in a semi-conscious state.  Make it where the dude never wants to leave again by spending a few minutes visualizing your perfect, beautiful life together.