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New Book Release

New Book Release

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What is the new book about?  The mistakes women make after a breakup, whether it has been a while or was recent, are so numerous that I wanted to guide you through the process.  I don't want you to alienate your man until he blocks you out of his life for good.  The book can assist you even if it is an old heartache but especially if you are in the middle of a nasty breakup.

Ten chapters of empowerment for you include:

  •  Why no contact?
  •   Why there is a good chance if he loved you once he will love you again
  •   Why remaining friends is not recommended
  •   How to stay strong
  •   Whether he is worth the effort
  •   First contact, what to do, how to act
  •   Getting him to commit  --  after all, you don't want the same selfish man back!

I think you will enjoy the book!  Check out my meditations if you haven't gone to my website yet!  From remote seduction to weight loss and orgasms (yes, there is even one for that) you will find a plethora of subjects to empower you!

If you haven't read my best selling books "Pussy Whip" or "How to Make Him Burn With Desire" they are must reads!  There is nothing more powerful than my secret technique that I teach you in my books.  It is the Law of Attraction on steroids with very specific directions.

I can't wait to read your success stories and feedback on my new book!

Join my forum for excellent support and advice!  LANIE'S FORUM "FOR WOMEN ONLY"

 

Relationship Mistakes Women Make

Relationship Mistakes Women Make

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You know the saying "all is fair in love and war" but it seems to me, after 20 years of counseling women, that women can be their own worse enemy when it comes to relationships.  Do you see yourself in the following examples?

  • Your mate says "you're too needy" and rather than back off and prove that you are an independent woman you stalk him which further alienates him.
  • Your ex states that he "hates drama" so you throw a temper tantrum when he blocks you from social media and his phone after a nasty breakup.
  • He says "I want to date other women" and you make the excuse that he loves you too much and is afraid of commitment so he gets a free pass while you sit at home alone and miserable.
  • He tells you that he cares for you as a "friend with benefits" woman and, although you want an engagement ring, you agree to be that for him thinking you can change his mind in time.
  • He may be honest and upfront by stating that "he never wants to get married" but you are positive that sex will be so awesome he will change his mind so you stay in a relationship for years and "waste your pretty" on him rather than find a man who is available.
  • When he tells you all the things that are wrong with you (or the relationship) you try convincing him that you are "the perfect woman for him" and he could never find anyone who would love him more.

Women love to make over things so part of the problem is the challenge of getting someone to change.  How many of your friends (or even yourself) have said "with a different hairstyle, clothes, personality, money, sexual appeal, etc." he COULD BE the perfect mate.  He isn't at the moment but if he changes he has potential!

When a man states emphatically that the relationship is not going anywhere I beg you to listen to him.  In the off-chance that he does change his mind he will hunt you down and crawl on his hands and knees to propose to you.  But, don't hold your breath.  Why?  One big reason is that men do not respect women and hold them in high regard if they do not have self-esteem.

Let's be truthful, if you have self-esteem you will not allow a man to treat you disrespectfully and/or take up your precious time to be a play toy.  You are honest and upfront and have no hidden agenda.  If you desire a monogamous relationship you won't settle for less.  If you desire marriage you don't pretend to be a free spirit who never wants to be tied down.  In other words, you are the person you are and you are proud of it!  He will always know what your standards are and that you will never be a doormat for him, or anyone else.

I write books about relationships but I have counseled women for many years on relationships, law of attraction, self-esteem issues and empowerment.  If you want to learn more about any of these subjects I hope you will go to my website because between my books and meditations you will find yourself growing stronger and more powerful day-to-day.   Do it for yourself but remember that "men love women who love themselves".

 

Spice Up Your Sex Life

Spice Up Your Sex Life

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I taught you in my books "Pussy Whip" and "How to Make Him BURN" the techniques to contact your man with your mind but you can also spice up your sex life the same way.  Sure it's great to get yourself hot looking and men are very visual but they are also very mental.  One of the best ways to enhance your sex life is to send your guy messages throughout the day that he receives in a most unusual way.  No, not texting or sexting!

Use the power of your mind to contact your man and visualize yourself being intimate, sexual, sensual and erotic with him.  Hey, don't laugh!  Your mind is the most powerful organ in your body and it has the power and ability to contact anyone at anytime.  I'm sure you have experienced thinking of someone just seconds before your phone rings.  They were thinking of you and sending you waves of energy that you picked up.

Now imagine the power of your mind when you actually intentionally direct your thoughts to someone.  They have no ability to stop your message and it will arrive with an added benefit.....EMOTION!  Don't believe me?  Go read the posts on my FORUM and you be amazed at the number of women who have used my "secret technique" and have had great success.  Or, go to another forum I am only a member of named LIPSTICK ALLEY and there are over 100,000 women who have read the posts.  Trust me, I do not exaggerate and you can read the facts on these forums or on my amazon.com page.

So spice up your love life by having a little foreplay BEFORE he comes to pick you up for a date or gets home from work and see how much desire he has for you!  Don't let your relationship get boring and old.  Give him a wave of energy sure to make him fall more in love with you as you take control of your hotness and your man!

"Love at First Site" Technique

"Love at First Site" Technique

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Can you really make someone fall in love with you at first sight?  In a way, yes.  You can create a feeling of love, lust and a "head over heels" feeling when you first meet someone. You can give them the feeling of butterflies and make their heart pitter patter!

How?  There are two ways to do it and they can be used on a stranger or on your mate to ignite passion and the feeling of "falling in love" all over again.

  1.  First of all, look into the person's eyes.  Not casually looking at them or glancing around the room like you're paying attention to them part of the time.  But really, really look into their eyes as if you can see deep into their soul.  This creates a feeling of excitement and expectation in the person you are looking at.  They actually feel a feeling that is akin to love.  As if they have known you forever....or want to know you forever!  It gives them butterflies and anticipation of what's to come!  An excitement that will stay in their memory banks forever.
  2. Next, as you are gazing into their eyes and hanging onto every word send them thoughts that will bond them to you and want to know you like they have never wanted to know anyone before.  How do you do that?  While paying attention ONLY to their eyes (not nose, mouth, forehead, etc) think the thought that you want them to think and feel the feelings you want them to feel.  For instance, you want them to want you sexually?  Think the thought "you desire me" and feel the emotion of being desired.  You want them to think you are the hottest person alive?  Think the thought "you love the way I look" and feel the emotion of them admiring your appearance.  Have an adversary?  When you speak to them think the thought "you like me" and change your attitude about their feelings toward you to reflect the thought.  Watch your life change!  "Thoughts are things and they are powerful!"

I teach women all over the world to change their mate's actions, thoughts and feelings towards them with my books.  I also have meditations that will empower you and assist you in getting the man you want AND make your self-esteem skyrocket.

Take a look at my website and meditations.  Your life will never be the same!

 

Attract Your "EX" Back

Attract Your "EX" Back

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I don't know why women want their "ex" back to be honest but I was one of the ones who did and I got him back using my "secret technique".  If things were that great to begin with there wouldn't have been a breakup but the minute he's gone women go insane until he comes back.  Is there a way to get him back without groveling, chasing and humiliating yourself?  Absolutely!

I write books to empower women and although the titles are salacious they are really about the power of the mind and using the Law of Attraction.  Sounds simple doesn't it?  Either simple or insane!  Using your mind to get your man back!  Lanie, are you serious?  Until you try my "secret technique" you will never, ever believe what you can do with it.

If you want your "ex" to come crawling back or if you want your current mate to change his behavior you absolutely can change his behavior AND his thoughts.  I am not making this up nor am I exaggerating the results.  Go to my website and read for yourself from forum members and they will confirm what I am telling you.  Lanie's Forum

In my book Pussy Whip - Proven, Powerful "Secret Technique" Controls Your Man I tell you exactly the simple steps to get your man back.  Would I call it a "trick" necessarily?  No, but it is a powerful method that may seem like one.  The fact is that it works!  But don't just take my word for it.  Read the Amazon reviews, go to the forum, try it and if you find it doesn't work get a refund for the book.  You have 7 days to do it (although I don't think you will).  :-)  That's pretty cool!

If you want to learn how to instantly manifest and get into the "magical subconscious state of mind" try my meditations.  They will take you deep into a place where anything and everything can be manifested because you are in a relaxed, peaceful, manifesting mode.  They will make things happen faster and empower you in many ways!  

My goal is to help women and teach them to never, ever feel sad, depressed or victimized.  You can control your future, your mate and his thoughts and feelings.  I hope you will take the opportunity to re-direct your life.  It is more simple than you can imagine!  Power and love to my "sisters"!

Powerful Remote Seduction MP3

Remote seduction is using the power of your mind and intent to contact the person you desire.  Just a thought will rarely work but when you get into a deep, meditative state of mind (the manifesting state of mind) and contact the person using my "secret technique" it will instantly work like magic.  No other technique can do what mine but you have to try it to believe it!

This is from an email I received today from a reader of my book How to Make Him BURN With Desire...Only for YOU.  I don't think she will mind if I post her email because I will leave her name private.  This is a sample of emails that I receive daily from women all over the world!

"Hello. I stumbled upon your 3 series books and was surprised when I reached the section of the mind power (I stared with Make Him Burn with Desire). This was/is different than any of the other 50+ books that I read about getting, then keeping my new boyfriend, bringing him back after he drifted due to a "hiccup" last Thursday. He barely spoke to me for three days.

So all that to say, that I did your exercises, the visualization and all, three times this past Sunday. By Monday he was calling me as a different man. Begging to come over and when he did, we barely got out of bed for two days and it was much more than just sex. We had the deepest connection since our relationship began and it is incredible.

I don't fully understand your methods, but you made a believer out of me. And I just wanted to say - THANK YOU! You gave me hope when I was hopeless and you very well may have saved our relationship."

The power of the mind is truly incredible and I teach you how to use it in an effective and powerful manner.  No other book will teach you what I teach you and no other guided meditation will have the power and ability to immediately contact the person you desire to get in touch with.  My technique is unique in every way!

 

 

 

Don't Force Commitment

Don't Force Commitment

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Men hate to be controlled and forced to commit! I mean they are more afraid of commitment than death. They try to hold onto their freedom just as long as humanly possible before they decide they have too much to lose if they don’t commit to that “special woman”. But it isn’t usually the woman who manipulates him into a relationship that he didn’t really want that he ends up with. In fact, although he may make promises to her out of a temporary fear of loss, he rarely keeps the coerced promises. Instead he begins to feel smothered, like he can’t breathe, before he escapes with his life. There is an easier way to control him ladies!

I get desperate letters from women because they are afraid their men are going to leave them or desperate pleas to help them because the guy just ran for the hills. I can usually pinpoint the problem within a few sentences and it is almost always the same. Desperation and neediness in a woman is a turn-off to guys. Too often women have coerced men into saying things they weren’t ready to say. Sure, the guys could have just avoided making promises they didn’t intend to keep but they rarely do. In a guy’s mind he wants to make sure it ISN’T the right woman and to do that he needs proof. So he starts looking for reasons that the demanding woman is not “the one”. Just the opposite of the intended purpose.

Reasons he may not commit: He says “I just want to be friends with benefits” and you coerce him into a “monogamous” relationship. He doesn’t want to move in together and has a hundred reasons why it isn’t a good idea but you wear him down until he moves in (for a while). He says “I need more freedom” and you think it’s a compromise to let him have one night a month “out with the boys”. He tells you all the reasons it will never work between the two of you but you aren’t listening because you are busy selling him on all of your “qualities”. He does everything in his power to get you to break up with him because he’s a “bad boy” and you think it’s a good thing that you have “patience and understanding”.

Face facts, men are natural born hunters and if they want something they will work on getting it. If you are having to convince your man that you’re worth the constant “relationship talks” then he is trying to find the nearest exit. It is rarely too late to salvage a relationship but you can save yourself the trouble of doing it if you will just listen to what he is saying and watch what he is doing. Don’t try to force a relationship that is obviously one-sided. Chasing a guy will make him run faster! There is a better and more effective way, ladies!

You can use my secret technique Pussy Whip – Proven, Powerful “Secret” Technique Controls Your Man to get him to chase you and want commitment and it works much better than you handcuffing him to you and your relationship. Try a new tactic on him using the power of your mind and my secret technique and you will see a definite change in his attitude toward you and your future together. It’s never too late!

Booty Call or Love?

Booty Call or Love?

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You know you have the ability to choose which one you desire in your life.  Too many women believe that a booty call is the first step to getting the guy emotionally involved but they have nothing to do with one another.  Some of the best "pure sex" does not lead to love and some of the "least inventive" sex can lead to deep emotional attachment.  It's all a matter of the heart.

I answer questions daily from readers who want to know if they should continue having sex with their ex while trying to get a commitment out of him.  If a guy has a willing sex partner who requires nothing more from him than an occasional "date" or "hookup" isn't it logical that he will take you up on the offer as frequently as he desires?  If that is not what you are seeking and desiring then you will need to decide if you want to continue being his friend with benefits.  I know women enjoy the benefits as much as the men but if you're using sex as a way to get a commitment you may re-think that decision.

I didn't see my now fiancé' for an entire year after our 4 year relationship cratered.  Why did we break up?  Well, I think his freedom was too much of a priority and I'm sure he will admit it freely.  I wasn't willing to be tossed aside only to get together occasionally for a sexual relationship.  Not for me, sorry.  So we didn't talk for an entire year!  No texts, no emails, no contact.  I did, however, use my "secret technique" on him during that time to ensure that he didn't forget about me.  Nothing wrong with some specific, directed thoughts that I knew he would receive.  He proposed 3 weeks after we saw each other again.

My point?  Don't settle for less than you deserve.  If you break up and he states clearly that he wants to continue with the "booty call" but nothing else see it for what it is and break it off if you want more.  There is nothing worse for your self-esteem than constant rejection and  hoping for commitment.  It is easier and healthier for you to be upfront with him and state what it is you need and desire.  Hear what he has to say to you about your needs and don't filter it and only hear what you want to hear.  For instance:  if he says "I don't want a relationship" don't make excuses for him and turn that into "he loves me too much and is afraid".  No!  Take it  as "I don't want a relationship....(maybe with you)".  Yes, it hurts!  But it's better to move on and find someone that does want a relationship with you.

I'm sure most women can relate to the "booty call" boyfriend and it leaves a very empty, vacant, low self-esteem feeling that can easily be recounted years later.  However, we've all experienced the empowerment of not accepting less than we desire in our life, too.  Is there anything better than taking back the control and moving on if that's what is necessary?  Men, or people in general, will only respect you as much as you respect and honor yourself.  Playing games isn't going to get you a strong, lasting relationship.  Be honest, sincere and decide your course of action with your eyes wide open.  "Booty Call" or significant other...you get to make that decision.

 

Remote Seduction Attracts ANY Man

Remote Seduction Attracts ANY Man

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What is remote seduction?  It is a way to attract your man, or any man, without any contact whatsoever.  All it takes is the power of your mind, the ability to visualize and a little practice.  I wrote the book "How to Make Him BURN With Desire...Only For You and it explains in detail how to use remote seduction to attract your man.  The book uses a unique technique that assists you in attracting your "target".  Your target can be someone you know, an "ex", a stranger, a co-worker....absolutely anyone.

What is unique about my technique is that you will actually call your mate to you before beginning your remote seduction visualization.  Thoughts are very powerful and while most people don't realize it they have the power to attract many, many things into their lives.  One of them is a mate.  When you use the power of remote seduction your target will be attracted to you and drawn to you without you ever speaking to him.  He will think the ideas and thoughts are his own but they are thoughts that you have intentionally placed there with the power of your imagination and intention.

For instance, if there is a co-worker that you desire and he has paid no attention to you this would be the perfect technique for you.  Flirting is so obvious and it takes your power away from you to seem so available and be the initiator.  It is best to sit back, use the visualization and make him chase you.  And he will be unable to keep you off his mind.  He will find that he is drawn to you so powerfully that he is literally unable to resist.  You can be friendly, nice, cute, funny but not assertive.  He will be putty in your hands.  An "ex"....well he is toast when you use the technique because you have been intimate and already know how to push his buttons.  This is a great way to get him back and take back your power, especially if he was the one who broke off the relationship.

How to do it?  First, you need to be in a relaxed state of mind.  I will have CDs and MP3s out within the next couple of weeks with powerful meditations to guide you and assist you in reaching the optimum state of mind.  Then you need to call him to you using the technique I wrote about in my books.  It gets his attention and he will immediately feel a strong and powerful thought and presence of you when you use it.  Next, you will visualize all kinds of intimacy with him.  Many readers have reported themselves having a pleasurable and spontaneous orgasm when they use the RS technique.  It is truly as if you are having a sexual encounter.  He feels it, too.  The power and intensity can be so strong and profound that it will feel real to you both.

Afterwards, bask in the glow and visualize the emotional attachment and bond that has been formed between you and your target.  It is a bond that is emotional as well as physical.  My readers have told me they like to use my  Pussy Whip - Proven, Powerful "Secret" Technique Controls Your Man book technique on one day and the How to Make Him BURN With Desire...Only For You technique on the other.  Alternate and get the best of both worlds.  The techniques are similar but one focuses more on the emotional attachment than the other.

What else happens?  Well ladies, when you use the remote seduction technique men from your past will feel it and frequently contact you, men that are not targeted will be drawn to you, actually men from everywhere will be at your beck and call.  Why?  As you raise your frequency and vibration you will attract men like you've never attracted them before.  It is as if you have the inner and outer glow that is achieved usually only after a sexual encounter.  You will have your choice of any man you desire by learning this unique way to seduce a man.  I suggest you use it only on men who are unattached and available.  I do not condone disrupting relationships or marriages by using this on them.  (With the exception of the straying husband and his mistress then I suggest it is a great way to get even and take your power back.)

Learn the technique ladies and build your self-esteem by attracting any man you desire!  Amp up your sexual appeal with a unique Remote Seduction guided meditation.  ONLY AVAILABLE ON MY WEBSITE!