I wish I could count the number of times I have been asked about when to let go of your "ex"....or, whether you should let go or not. I write books on attracting your "ex" or any man into your life and they absolutely, totally work. However, if you have a man who shows no interest in you, you have to track down and chase, he only wants a "booty call" or keeps you hanging on with empty promises is that a question you should be asking? Is attracting back your "ex" who appears to care less really worth your time and energy? I can only answer for myself but that would be a HELL NO.
I tell my readers that if you have to spend all of your time, energy and effort on getting a guy back who acts like he could take you or leave you and not care either way then dump him! Even though you can put thoughts and feelings into his head with my "secret technique" it will be a full-time job for you and eventually you will just have to throw up your hands and give up. There are too many awesome men out there to waste time pining and whining over the loss of one man. I don't care how "wonderful, fabulous, irreplaceable" he is in your head. If he was such a great guy he wouldn't be dismissing you and treating you exactly the way YOU DO NOT DESERVE to be treated would he?
Women say about their ex "I can't live without him" or "he is the love of my life" but if he treats you poorly there isn't much there to love is there? Men tend to remember the bad things in a past relationship and women remember only the good. Women don't remember how poorly or dismissive they were treated. Sometimes it is a wake-up call when you realize that it has been months since your ex had any connection to you or showed you the kindness and love you yearn for. Sometimes you have to just let go and not have ANY expectation of him returning for him to feel it, miss the connection and come back. It doesn't always work but I guarantee you that it works more often than sitting around looking at your phone and waiting for a non-existent phone call. It certainly works better than stalking him, creeping on his FB or drunk dialing him only to be rebuffed again. You want him? Let him go and let him feel the loss.
Independence and strength in a woman is attractive and desirable to men. Clingy, desperate, can't move forward, needy, jealous, low self-esteem women are a turn-off and men feel it, sense it, see it and RUN FROM IT. You want to know when to let go of a man? The minute he treats you the way you do not deserve to be treated. No, I'm not talking about a little spat. I am talking about on-going, continuous behavior from him that depletes your energy, trashes your self-esteem and makes you totally at his beck and call. Cut the cord and he will feel it. Otherwise you may become a back-up if nothing better shows up in his life and frankly who is the hell would want to be that?
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