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New Book Release

New Book Release

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What is the new book about?  The mistakes women make after a breakup, whether it has been a while or was recent, are so numerous that I wanted to guide you through the process.  I don't want you to alienate your man until he blocks you out of his life for good.  The book can assist you even if it is an old heartache but especially if you are in the middle of a nasty breakup.

Ten chapters of empowerment for you include:

  •  Why no contact?
  •   Why there is a good chance if he loved you once he will love you again
  •   Why remaining friends is not recommended
  •   How to stay strong
  •   Whether he is worth the effort
  •   First contact, what to do, how to act
  •   Getting him to commit  --  after all, you don't want the same selfish man back!

I think you will enjoy the book!  Check out my meditations if you haven't gone to my website yet!  From remote seduction to weight loss and orgasms (yes, there is even one for that) you will find a plethora of subjects to empower you!

If you haven't read my best selling books "Pussy Whip" or "How to Make Him Burn With Desire" they are must reads!  There is nothing more powerful than my secret technique that I teach you in my books.  It is the Law of Attraction on steroids with very specific directions.

I can't wait to read your success stories and feedback on my new book!

Join my forum for excellent support and advice!  LANIE'S FORUM "FOR WOMEN ONLY"

 

Relationship Mistakes Women Make

Relationship Mistakes Women Make

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You know the saying "all is fair in love and war" but it seems to me, after 20 years of counseling women, that women can be their own worse enemy when it comes to relationships.  Do you see yourself in the following examples?

  • Your mate says "you're too needy" and rather than back off and prove that you are an independent woman you stalk him which further alienates him.
  • Your ex states that he "hates drama" so you throw a temper tantrum when he blocks you from social media and his phone after a nasty breakup.
  • He says "I want to date other women" and you make the excuse that he loves you too much and is afraid of commitment so he gets a free pass while you sit at home alone and miserable.
  • He tells you that he cares for you as a "friend with benefits" woman and, although you want an engagement ring, you agree to be that for him thinking you can change his mind in time.
  • He may be honest and upfront by stating that "he never wants to get married" but you are positive that sex will be so awesome he will change his mind so you stay in a relationship for years and "waste your pretty" on him rather than find a man who is available.
  • When he tells you all the things that are wrong with you (or the relationship) you try convincing him that you are "the perfect woman for him" and he could never find anyone who would love him more.

Women love to make over things so part of the problem is the challenge of getting someone to change.  How many of your friends (or even yourself) have said "with a different hairstyle, clothes, personality, money, sexual appeal, etc." he COULD BE the perfect mate.  He isn't at the moment but if he changes he has potential!

When a man states emphatically that the relationship is not going anywhere I beg you to listen to him.  In the off-chance that he does change his mind he will hunt you down and crawl on his hands and knees to propose to you.  But, don't hold your breath.  Why?  One big reason is that men do not respect women and hold them in high regard if they do not have self-esteem.

Let's be truthful, if you have self-esteem you will not allow a man to treat you disrespectfully and/or take up your precious time to be a play toy.  You are honest and upfront and have no hidden agenda.  If you desire a monogamous relationship you won't settle for less.  If you desire marriage you don't pretend to be a free spirit who never wants to be tied down.  In other words, you are the person you are and you are proud of it!  He will always know what your standards are and that you will never be a doormat for him, or anyone else.

I write books about relationships but I have counseled women for many years on relationships, law of attraction, self-esteem issues and empowerment.  If you want to learn more about any of these subjects I hope you will go to my website because between my books and meditations you will find yourself growing stronger and more powerful day-to-day.   Do it for yourself but remember that "men love women who love themselves".

 

Psychic Touch--Can It Sexually Stimulate?

Psychic Touch--Can It Sexually Stimulate?

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Psychic Touch is real and it works!  It is the art of getting yourself into a relaxed, meditative state of mind (alpha state) and visualizing and imagining the person you desire in an intimate scenario.  It absolutely and totally works and they feel you, think of you and they desire you.  Best of all, they believe the thoughts are originating within them and have no idea you are controlling it!   Remote Seduction Meditation

It is no secret that our thoughts are projected to others.  Think of how many times you think of someone then run into them or have them call or text.  You were unintentionally messaging each other and projecting your thoughts ahead of your actions.  When you use Psychic Touch there will frequently be a feeling of "actual" sexual intimacy between both partners.  It is so real, so intimate that it is second only to an actual sexual encounter.

My books teach you how use a secret technique to engage your partner and it intensifies the effect 1,000 more than just a single, solitary thought.  Using my technique before visualizing touching, kissing and caressing you partner will absolutely drive them wild with passion.  You want him to desire you?  Stimulate him and make him desire you through the power of your wonderful, passionate thoughts.

Never underestimate the power of your mind.  Learn how to reach your partner any time of the day or night and have them think of you---and only you!  Learn Psychic Touch from a person who has practiced it for 20 years and is a master at Remote Seduction.    "How To Make Him Burn With Desire"

Spice Up Your Sex Life

Spice Up Your Sex Life

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I taught you in my books "Pussy Whip" and "How to Make Him BURN" the techniques to contact your man with your mind but you can also spice up your sex life the same way.  Sure it's great to get yourself hot looking and men are very visual but they are also very mental.  One of the best ways to enhance your sex life is to send your guy messages throughout the day that he receives in a most unusual way.  No, not texting or sexting!

Use the power of your mind to contact your man and visualize yourself being intimate, sexual, sensual and erotic with him.  Hey, don't laugh!  Your mind is the most powerful organ in your body and it has the power and ability to contact anyone at anytime.  I'm sure you have experienced thinking of someone just seconds before your phone rings.  They were thinking of you and sending you waves of energy that you picked up.

Now imagine the power of your mind when you actually intentionally direct your thoughts to someone.  They have no ability to stop your message and it will arrive with an added benefit.....EMOTION!  Don't believe me?  Go read the posts on my FORUM and you be amazed at the number of women who have used my "secret technique" and have had great success.  Or, go to another forum I am only a member of named LIPSTICK ALLEY and there are over 100,000 women who have read the posts.  Trust me, I do not exaggerate and you can read the facts on these forums or on my amazon.com page.

So spice up your love life by having a little foreplay BEFORE he comes to pick you up for a date or gets home from work and see how much desire he has for you!  Don't let your relationship get boring and old.  Give him a wave of energy sure to make him fall more in love with you as you take control of your hotness and your man!

"Love at First Site" Technique

"Love at First Site" Technique

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Can you really make someone fall in love with you at first sight?  In a way, yes.  You can create a feeling of love, lust and a "head over heels" feeling when you first meet someone. You can give them the feeling of butterflies and make their heart pitter patter!

How?  There are two ways to do it and they can be used on a stranger or on your mate to ignite passion and the feeling of "falling in love" all over again.

  1.  First of all, look into the person's eyes.  Not casually looking at them or glancing around the room like you're paying attention to them part of the time.  But really, really look into their eyes as if you can see deep into their soul.  This creates a feeling of excitement and expectation in the person you are looking at.  They actually feel a feeling that is akin to love.  As if they have known you forever....or want to know you forever!  It gives them butterflies and anticipation of what's to come!  An excitement that will stay in their memory banks forever.
  2. Next, as you are gazing into their eyes and hanging onto every word send them thoughts that will bond them to you and want to know you like they have never wanted to know anyone before.  How do you do that?  While paying attention ONLY to their eyes (not nose, mouth, forehead, etc) think the thought that you want them to think and feel the feelings you want them to feel.  For instance, you want them to want you sexually?  Think the thought "you desire me" and feel the emotion of being desired.  You want them to think you are the hottest person alive?  Think the thought "you love the way I look" and feel the emotion of them admiring your appearance.  Have an adversary?  When you speak to them think the thought "you like me" and change your attitude about their feelings toward you to reflect the thought.  Watch your life change!  "Thoughts are things and they are powerful!"

I teach women all over the world to change their mate's actions, thoughts and feelings towards them with my books.  I also have meditations that will empower you and assist you in getting the man you want AND make your self-esteem skyrocket.

Take a look at my website and meditations.  Your life will never be the same!

 

Attract Your "EX" Back

Attract Your "EX" Back

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I don't know why women want their "ex" back to be honest but I was one of the ones who did and I got him back using my "secret technique".  If things were that great to begin with there wouldn't have been a breakup but the minute he's gone women go insane until he comes back.  Is there a way to get him back without groveling, chasing and humiliating yourself?  Absolutely!

I write books to empower women and although the titles are salacious they are really about the power of the mind and using the Law of Attraction.  Sounds simple doesn't it?  Either simple or insane!  Using your mind to get your man back!  Lanie, are you serious?  Until you try my "secret technique" you will never, ever believe what you can do with it.

If you want your "ex" to come crawling back or if you want your current mate to change his behavior you absolutely can change his behavior AND his thoughts.  I am not making this up nor am I exaggerating the results.  Go to my website and read for yourself from forum members and they will confirm what I am telling you.  Lanie's Forum

In my book Pussy Whip - Proven, Powerful "Secret Technique" Controls Your Man I tell you exactly the simple steps to get your man back.  Would I call it a "trick" necessarily?  No, but it is a powerful method that may seem like one.  The fact is that it works!  But don't just take my word for it.  Read the Amazon reviews, go to the forum, try it and if you find it doesn't work get a refund for the book.  You have 7 days to do it (although I don't think you will).  :-)  That's pretty cool!

If you want to learn how to instantly manifest and get into the "magical subconscious state of mind" try my meditations.  They will take you deep into a place where anything and everything can be manifested because you are in a relaxed, peaceful, manifesting mode.  They will make things happen faster and empower you in many ways!  

My goal is to help women and teach them to never, ever feel sad, depressed or victimized.  You can control your future, your mate and his thoughts and feelings.  I hope you will take the opportunity to re-direct your life.  It is more simple than you can imagine!  Power and love to my "sisters"!

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Remote seduction is using the power of your mind and intent to contact the person you desire.  Just a thought will rarely work but when you get into a deep, meditative state of mind (the manifesting state of mind) and contact the person using my "secret technique" it will instantly work like magic.  No other technique can do what mine but you have to try it to believe it!

This is from an email I received today from a reader of my book How to Make Him BURN With Desire...Only for YOU.  I don't think she will mind if I post her email because I will leave her name private.  This is a sample of emails that I receive daily from women all over the world!

"Hello. I stumbled upon your 3 series books and was surprised when I reached the section of the mind power (I stared with Make Him Burn with Desire). This was/is different than any of the other 50+ books that I read about getting, then keeping my new boyfriend, bringing him back after he drifted due to a "hiccup" last Thursday. He barely spoke to me for three days.

So all that to say, that I did your exercises, the visualization and all, three times this past Sunday. By Monday he was calling me as a different man. Begging to come over and when he did, we barely got out of bed for two days and it was much more than just sex. We had the deepest connection since our relationship began and it is incredible.

I don't fully understand your methods, but you made a believer out of me. And I just wanted to say - THANK YOU! You gave me hope when I was hopeless and you very well may have saved our relationship."

The power of the mind is truly incredible and I teach you how to use it in an effective and powerful manner.  No other book will teach you what I teach you and no other guided meditation will have the power and ability to immediately contact the person you desire to get in touch with.  My technique is unique in every way!

 

 

 

Booty Call or Love?

Booty Call or Love?

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You know you have the ability to choose which one you desire in your life.  Too many women believe that a booty call is the first step to getting the guy emotionally involved but they have nothing to do with one another.  Some of the best "pure sex" does not lead to love and some of the "least inventive" sex can lead to deep emotional attachment.  It's all a matter of the heart.

I answer questions daily from readers who want to know if they should continue having sex with their ex while trying to get a commitment out of him.  If a guy has a willing sex partner who requires nothing more from him than an occasional "date" or "hookup" isn't it logical that he will take you up on the offer as frequently as he desires?  If that is not what you are seeking and desiring then you will need to decide if you want to continue being his friend with benefits.  I know women enjoy the benefits as much as the men but if you're using sex as a way to get a commitment you may re-think that decision.

I didn't see my now fiancé' for an entire year after our 4 year relationship cratered.  Why did we break up?  Well, I think his freedom was too much of a priority and I'm sure he will admit it freely.  I wasn't willing to be tossed aside only to get together occasionally for a sexual relationship.  Not for me, sorry.  So we didn't talk for an entire year!  No texts, no emails, no contact.  I did, however, use my "secret technique" on him during that time to ensure that he didn't forget about me.  Nothing wrong with some specific, directed thoughts that I knew he would receive.  He proposed 3 weeks after we saw each other again.

My point?  Don't settle for less than you deserve.  If you break up and he states clearly that he wants to continue with the "booty call" but nothing else see it for what it is and break it off if you want more.  There is nothing worse for your self-esteem than constant rejection and  hoping for commitment.  It is easier and healthier for you to be upfront with him and state what it is you need and desire.  Hear what he has to say to you about your needs and don't filter it and only hear what you want to hear.  For instance:  if he says "I don't want a relationship" don't make excuses for him and turn that into "he loves me too much and is afraid".  No!  Take it  as "I don't want a relationship....(maybe with you)".  Yes, it hurts!  But it's better to move on and find someone that does want a relationship with you.

I'm sure most women can relate to the "booty call" boyfriend and it leaves a very empty, vacant, low self-esteem feeling that can easily be recounted years later.  However, we've all experienced the empowerment of not accepting less than we desire in our life, too.  Is there anything better than taking back the control and moving on if that's what is necessary?  Men, or people in general, will only respect you as much as you respect and honor yourself.  Playing games isn't going to get you a strong, lasting relationship.  Be honest, sincere and decide your course of action with your eyes wide open.  "Booty Call" or significant other...you get to make that decision.

 

Should You Let Go of Your Ex?

Should You Let Go of Your Ex?

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I wish I could count the number of times I have been asked about when to let go of your "ex"....or, whether you should let go or not.  I write books on attracting your "ex" or any man into your life and they absolutely, totally work.  However, if you have a man who shows no interest in you, you have to track down and chase, he only wants a "booty call" or keeps you hanging on with empty promises is that a question you should be asking?  Is attracting back your "ex" who appears to care less really worth your time and energy?  I can only answer for myself but that would be a HELL NO.

I tell my readers that if you have to spend all of your time, energy and effort on getting a guy back who acts like he could take you or leave you and not care either way then dump him!  Even though you can put thoughts and feelings into his head with my "secret technique" it will be a full-time job for you and eventually you will just have to throw up your hands and give up.  There are too many awesome men out there to waste time pining and whining over the loss of one man.  I don't care how "wonderful, fabulous, irreplaceable" he is in your head.  If he was such a great guy he wouldn't be dismissing you and treating you exactly the way YOU DO NOT DESERVE to be treated would he?

Women say about their ex "I can't live without him" or "he is the love of my life" but if he treats you poorly there isn't much there to love is there?  Men tend to remember the bad things in a past relationship and women remember only the good.  Women don't remember how poorly or dismissive they were treated.  Sometimes it is a wake-up call when you realize that it has been months since your ex had any connection to you or showed you the kindness and love you yearn for.   Sometimes you have to just let go and not have ANY expectation of him returning for him to feel it, miss the connection and come back.  It doesn't always work but I guarantee you that it works more often than sitting around looking at your phone and waiting for a non-existent phone call.  It certainly works better than stalking him, creeping on his FB or drunk dialing him only to be rebuffed again.  You want him?  Let him go and let him feel the loss.

Independence and strength in a woman is attractive and desirable to men.  Clingy, desperate, can't move forward, needy, jealous, low self-esteem women are a turn-off and men feel it, sense it, see it and RUN FROM IT.  You want to know when to let go of a man?  The minute he treats you the way you do not deserve to be treated.  No, I'm not talking about a little spat.  I am talking about on-going, continuous behavior from him that depletes your energy, trashes your self-esteem and makes you totally at his beck and call.  Cut the cord and he will feel it.  Otherwise you may become a back-up if nothing better shows up in his life and frankly who is the hell would want to be that?

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Our forum is only a couple of weeks old but we have a great group of women who know about Law of Attraction and how to use it!  Never allow yourself to feel like a victim when you have the power to change your future but just haven't learned how to use it.

 

Meditation Facts

Meditation Facts

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 I get SO many emails every day from women (and some men) who want to know more about what frame of mind you need to be in to manifest.  Do you need to be in a trance?  In a deep meditation?  In a totally subconscious state where you aren't aware of what's going on around you?  What happens if different and random thoughts cross your mind?  All valid questions I would like to address because the thoughts themselves can cause undue stress.

ALL you need to do is be relaxed and receptive.  In my Pussy Whip book (which was the first book) I explained the importance of your subconscious state.  It is 35,000 more powerful in manifesting than your conscious (rational) mind.  So I tell you to think "sleep" three times to induce a deep relaxation.  It may even make you yawn because it will shift your body into a relaxed state even when you are actively thinking.  That's all you need to do.  It is not necessary to become adept at meditation (although it is beneficial for other reasons) or to be a Yogi who practices for hours on end.  ALL you need to do is just relax.  Relax and allow yourself to focus on what you want to manifest.

Can you listen to music?  Yes, but you won't be doing the technique for a long enough period of time to really get into a deep meditation.  I only use the technique for 5 minutes usually.  Sometimes 10 minutes but that is the maximum.  I take a few deep, relaxing breaths and think "sleep" three times.  I am ready to manifest.  Your body will become trained by you doing the same routine over and over again to respond immediately.  You will be surprised that all you have to do is think "manifest" or "relax" and your body will begin to automatically go into a shifted state of consciousness.

Don't worry about whether you are connected to your target or not.  Or whether you are in a subconscious state or not.  Or whether you have thoughts or not.  We all have thoughts that are uncontrollable.  It happens during the day when we are trying to focus and it happens during meditation when we are trying to manifest.  Just allow the thoughts to float away and go back to focusing.  Don't think too much about it!  Don't freak out and beat yourself up fearing nothing will manifest.  It will manifest if you use my "secret" technique.  Believe it.  Live it.  Breathe it.  Manifest it.  If something else crosses your mind just gently bring your thoughts back to what you were thinking and visualizing before that pesky conscious mind interrupted you.

It is so easy to "Pussy Whip" the guy or manifest the life of your dreams.  Don't let that conscious mind that doubts everything take away your vision.  It is like the devil on your shoulder constantly giving you negative and destructive advice.  Ignore it.  Push the negativity away and create the life of your dreams.  Ladies, it is really that simple.  :-)