If you are hung up on your "ex" whether it was your love, your boyfriend or your husband NOW is the time to move forward. The new year is an excellent time to "Cut the Cord" with him and attract positive things in your life.
I am a relationship expert and I have counseled thousands of women all wanting the same thing. LOVE! I deal with broken hearts and women who have lost all hope of getting their "ex" back or finding new love. Women who have put 100% of their effort into their relationship and given total control of their lives up to their mates. Honestly, think about this for a moment....would you desire someone who clung to you like they would die if you were out of their sight? Would that make you want to be with them more or less? It may feel good at first but then you would feel smothered, irritated and stuck. Being needy is not an attractive trait from either side. Let's break the neediness and replace it with a new, powerful YOU!
My suggestion for the new year is for ALL women who have been mourning the loss of a mate to move forward in 2017. Don't allow yourself to be stuck thinking about someone 24/7 because when you do it means that they are still in control. You are at a distinct disadvantage because they are living their life, enjoying their life and you are miserable and stuck in the past. There is no bigger waste of energy than to focus on the past. You cannot change it! The only moment in time that you have control over is this very second so make the most of it.
I challenge you to focus on YOU right now! Focus on getting healthy, losing a few extra pounds or getting in shape, meeting new friends or potential partners, changing your wardrobe, your job, your hairstyle, your makeup and your life. Stop focusing on all the things you don't have and feel gratitude for the things you do have! Take a few minutes every day to meditate and feel the peaceful state of total relaxation to rejuvenate your body, mind and soul. If you like guided meditations go to my website and check out meditations designed to empower women specifically. Everything from losing weight, creating health to controlling the "ex" through specific, targeted visualizations that will make him literally feel you as clearly as if you were whispering in his ear.
New year and new YOU! The powerful, wonderful, strong and desirable woman that every man would be lucky to have. Happy New Year!